GQ: “Son, Men Don’t Get Raped”
GQ correspondent Nathaniel Penn wrote a long-form investigative report on the male survivors of sexual assault in the military.
The series features brave stories from Brian Lewis, Heath Phillips, Trent Smith and many others who have worked closely with us. Protect Our Defenders worked with Penn on this important piece for months, connecting him with survivors, military health professionals and support services.
The correspondent also wrote a blog post on where survivors can turn to for help. Penn highlighted our work, naming Protect Our Defenders the “nation’s leading advocacy and support group for survivors of military sexual trauma.”
The moment a man enlists in the United States armed forces, his chances of being sexually assaulted increase by a factor of ten. Women, of course, are much more likely to be victims of military sexual trauma (MST), but far fewer of them enlist. In fact, more military men are assaulted than women—nearly 14,000 in 2012 alone. Prior to the repeal of “Don’t ask, don’t tell” in 2011, male-on-male-rape victims could actually be discharged for having engaged in homosexual conduct. That’s no longer the case—but the numbers show that men are still afraid to report being sexually assaulted.
Military culture is built upon a tenuous balance of aggression and obedience. The potential for sexual violence exists whenever there is too much of either. New recruits, stripped of their free will, cannot question authority. A certain kind of officer demands sex from underlings in the same way he demands they pick up his laundry. A certain kind of recruit rapes his peer in a sick mimicry of the power structure: I own you totally. “One of the myths is that the perpetrators identify as gay, which is by and large not the case,” says James Asbrand, a psychologist with the Salt Lake City VA’s PTSD clinical team. “It’s not about the sex. It’s about power and control.”
To understand this problem and why it persists twenty-two years after the Tailhook scandal, GQ interviewed military officials, mental-health professionals, and policy-makers, as well as twenty-three men who are survivors not only of MST but also of a bureaucracy that has failed to protect them.
