Survivors Write In

This page provides an opportunity for survivors to share their personal account of their experience as they choose to describe it.

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Diana’s Story: 

***Trigger Warning*** I would like to share the most critical chapter of my life. The chapter that formed my inner…


Anonymous’ Story: 

***Trigger Warning*** I was sexually assaulted through forced sodomy with the end of a broom stick aboard the USS Detroit…


Jay’s Story: 

***Trigger Warning*** I was upstairs in the dorm dayroom hanging out with other service members. We were playing pool, drinking…


Debra’s Story: 

***Trigger Warning*** Entered Basic training at age 17 – Alabama – Raped by drill Sargent. Supply room in basement he…


David’s Story: 

***Trigger Warning*** Not sure where to start. I’m 50 years old. Life’s been a struggle. I joined the army. Being…


Anonymous’ Story: 

The armed forces are saturated with a misogynistic culture both at the officers & enlisted ranks. The culture is essentially…


Anonymous’ Story: 

I was drugged with a drug named G, raped and tramp stamped with a small anchor and sailor hat. 😔…


Anonymous’ Story: 

**Trigger Warning** MST: My Story As it relates to MST, the military continues to turn a blind eye to the…


Katie Lindsay’s Story: 

It was my first week in a new city, a new state, 1200 miles from where I had called home…


Anonymous’ Story: 

***Trigger Warning*** From the time I was a young girl, I always knew I wanted to join the military. I…


Anonymous’ Story: 

While standing watch on the Jacksonville NAS, my supervisor assaulted me. This went on for 4 months. That was in…


Anonymous Story: 

Smile! You’re on Camera! Military Soldiers Use Hidden Cameras in Sexual Assault Cases “That camera was the only reason he…


Damien’s Story: 

***Trigger Warning*** I joined the army to serve my country. After basic training I attended school a four month program,…


Lori’s Story: 

***Trigger Warning*** I grew up in foster care. Adopted age 12. When I turned 17, my adopted mom had me…


Anonymous Story: 

I barely even recall what my rapist looked like…. I was TDY for training in 2014. I was drunk at…


Tyshie’s Story: 

I was raped by eight U.S. male soldiers over the course of the 2004 summer in Tarin Kowt, Afghanistan. I…


Leslie’s Story: 

While on the 13th MEU, I was sexually assaulted by a Sgt whom I had thought was a decent person….


Barbara’s Story: 

***Trigger Warning*** Navy BOOTCAMP I left for Orlando, Florida on January 3, 1987 excited about the next chapter in my…


Linda’s Story: 

Following Boot Camp in Orlando, Florida, I was to transfer to Millington, Tn., for my A school. The weekend I…


Anonymous Story: 

To start, this is quite possibly the most cathartic history I must share with those who are willing to read…


Anonymous Story: 

Girl with the Sword My Story began over a decade ago while I was serving on active duty overseas. It…


Stephanie Kalota’s Story: 

I was finally unpacking boxes to decorate our house. And then I found this; it was my holster for my…


Aliya Fitz-El’s Story: 

My name is Aliya Fitz-El. I joined the United States Marine Corps in August 2001 and entered boot camp October…


Shawntasia Crawford’s Story: 

I was a 20 year old, that just wanted to be in the military and be happy. So simple, at…


Anonymous Story: 

I’d like to say thank you for the continuous trauma you have caused me. You took advantage of my weakness….


Anonymous Story: 

I was out with other soldiers while on weekend pass. Several of us split a hotel room. I ended up…


Tracy’s Story: 

***Trigger Warning*** I joined the US Navy in June of 1998 because I was struggling to pay for college and…


Gwendolyn’s Story: 

My name is Gwendolyn E. Lindsay-Jackson, and I am an African American woman, a New York resident, an Army Veteran…


Jacob Manning’s Story: 

***Trigger Warning*** Sexual assault, suicide, self-harm, alcohol/drug abuse   I joined the Army in September 1997 as an Infantryman. I…


Anonymous Story: 

Trauma has a weird way of defining our mental and physical state for the weeks, months, and even years to…


Joanne’s Story: 

***Trigger Warning*** I was assigned to SGS Transportation in Heidelberg, Germany as a driver. This particular time I was assigned…


Anonymous Story: 

***Trigger Warning*** My ex-husband was enlisted before I was. He was incredibly abusive and 2 weeks before I left for…


Morgan’s Story: 

I am currently Active Duty in the US Army. I was sexually assaulted repeatedly by a Command Sergeant Major on…


Jordan’s Story: 

**Trigger Warning** I was around 20 years old when I decided I wanted to join the military. I was majoring…


Jessica’s Story: 

**Trigger Warning** In October of 2017, I was selected to attend the Airlift/Tanker Association Symposium in Orlando with dozens of…


Rebecca’s Story: 

**Trigger Warning** It was July of 2017, I had been in the Navy for about a year and a half…


BriGette’s Story: 

I went into the military in the delayed entry program before I graduated high school. I decided fairly early in…


Vanessa’s Story: 

Around the time Don’t Ask Don’t Tell was appealed, I was sexually assaulted by a Navy recruiter out of Alhambra,…


Kirsten’s Story: 

When I was at Fort Sam on active duty army orders, getting training to become a medic, one of the…


Kirstin’s Story: 

I was 19 years old when I woke up with one drill sergeant looking in on another drill sergeant who…


Anonymous Story: 

**Trigger Warning** Boot camp was one of the best experiences of my life. The moment that I switched out my…


Aaralyn’s Story: 

Sometimes it’s hard to discuss my rape without feeling disgusted and vulnerable. So the only way I am able to…


Rachel’s Story: 

My SHARP Story: Swinging Back **Note: Names have been changed to protect identities This is a true story that happened…


Taquisha’s Story: 

My sole purpose of writing you this letter is because I feel failed by the Army I loved and serviced…


Moriah’s Story: 

I am a 21-year-old female who proudly served as a police officer in the United States Marine Corps. I am…


Anonymous Story: 

I had always been interested in joining the military and carrying forward a long family tradition of serving. I was…


Anonymous Story: 

I was discharged in December of 1966 with an Other Than Honorable (OTH) discharge after spending over a year in…


Dana’s Story: 

When I was 19 years old, I was in the Army and stationed in South Korea. My job was clerical….


Ryan’s Story: 

I am currently a Staff Sergeant in the US Air Force who was sexually assaulted in 2012 on a deployment….


Jessie’s Story: 

I would first like to start my story with a big Thank You to God for making me a survivor…


Wendy’s Story: 

Although I am considered a foreign wars veteran, I’ve never been in battle. I’ve never seen war or the terrible…


Anonymous Story: 

**TRIGGER WARNING: this story contains some graphic details** The first time it happened, I had just left basic training for…


Lauren’s Story: 

The first time I was violated in 2014, I was found passed out in my car at a stoplight. I…


Jason’s Story: 

I served in the Marine Corps from 2001 to 2003. My Gunny and Chief Warrant Officer would often find me…


N.N.T.’s Story: 

I served 20 years as a combat soldier and drill sergeant, with a stellar career in the regular Army. It…


Hank’s Story: 

I joined the Navy, planning to make it my career. I loved all my training in the Navy and had…


Christina’s Story: 

My name is Christina and was raped while serving in the Army. Before that dreadful night in Kuwait, I was…


John’s Story: 

I was standing watch on a trident ballistic missile submarine (my 4th submarine where I reenlisted just before this happened)…


Mike’s Story: 

I enlisted at the naive age of 17 and completed basic training when I was still in high school. Our…


Aaron’s Story: 

The sexual assaults occurred twice in 1981 and 1982 when I was in my early thirties. There were three perpetrators,…


Anonymous Story: 

I entered boot camp in October of 2014, excited and thrilled to enlist. I come from a family of immigrants….


Tori’s Story: 

On May 11, 2014, I had a friend over to watch a movie and have a few drinks. As the…


John’s Story: 

I was at boot camp at Fort Jackson, SC. It was Sept. 6, 1980. I was on fireguard duty in…


Anonymous Story: 

I had a childhood dream of joining the Air Force. When I was in high school, I finally enlisted. I…


Anonymous Story: 

I was assaulted on base by a shipmate who preyed on me while I was very drunk. I had experienced…


Brandi’s Story: 

I joined the US Army in October 2008 and departed for basic training days after Christmas. I was beyond excited…


Levi’s Story: 

My name is Thomas. For the anonymity of those involved, ranks and locations have been changed. My family has a…


Anonymous Story: 

I served in the United States Navy from July 21, 1998 until July 20, 2002 at Roosevelt Roads, Puerto Rico…


Jill’s Story: 

My name is Jill, and I am a survivor of military sexual assault. I was sexually assaulted by my squad…


Shannon’s Story: 

My name is Shannon and I kept my rape to myself for over 30 years. The thought that things haven’t…


Gigi’s Story: 

I was raped after being drugged at a small get-together for our supervisor’s birthday. Six people were there altogether. They…


Sheri’s Story: 

I was an Air Force Reservist at Lackland Air Force Base on Title 10 orders to cross-train as security forces….


Katie’s Story: 

I was raped by a civilian while on active duty and I was inappropriately touched by another soldier in my…


Terrie’s Story: 

After a childhood of sexual abuse by my adoptive parents, I joined the Army at 19. I was raped while…


John’s Story: 

I was born in 1950 and grew up under the shadow of World War II. My father was in the…


Shwonda’s Story: 

I was from a small town and had been sheltered all my life. I grew up in a Pentecostal Holiness…


Heidi’s Story: 

I had recently arrived at March Air Force Base at the beginning of 1987 after Military Indoctrination for Medical Officers…


Anonymous Story: 

I was valedictorian of my high school, a lacrosse player and dancer. I was confident, courageous and optimistic about my…


Katie’s Story: 

I joined the Active Duty Army in September of 1993 to serve my country, earn money for college and make…


Anonymous Story: 

“I have been assaulted twice in my career. Once in 2003 and once in 2011…”


V’s Story: 

I grew up as the youngest in a very large and very religious family. I was taught to respect my…


Olga’s Story: 

I am a 42-year-old mother, wife, and grandmother. I joined the United States Air Force in June 1988.  I was…


Elizabeth’s Story: 

I joined the military in 1988 when I was 18 years old. I was sent for basic training and then…


Stephanie’s Story: 

In April 1988, I lived in the dorms at Jacksonville AFB in Arkansas. A male civilian on base raped me….


Preston’s Story: 

In July of 1979, Jeffrey Dahmer was sent to my unit HHC 2/68 Armor. From the beginning, Jeffrey was a…


Nicole’s Story: 

I joined the Army in 2008 as a prior enlisted Soldier. In April of 2009, less than a month after…


Anonymous Story: 

A male soldier at Dover AFB asked me to go to a movie with him one afternoon, and I accepted….


William’s Story: 

Recently, I sought treatment for the rapes I endured while serving in the United States Air Force at the age…


Hannah’s Story: 

As a child, seeing men and women in uniform, either in-person or on TV, I thought, “Wow, I want to…


Deborah’s Story: 

I will start by saying I loved serving in the military for almost two decades and had planned to remain…


Brandy’s Story: 

My story is a long one, but the short version is that I was sexually assaulted and sodomized by a…


Kathryn’s Story: 

My story is about several incidents. The first occurred after a command inspection while I was in school in Orlando. As…


Alan’s Story: 

I was assaulted many years ago, but the effects have always haunted me. I never knew where to turn for…


Anonymous Story: 

I went into the Army in 1984 as a married woman, although I was separated from my husband. I arrived…


Repunza’s Story: 

There are two major parts to my story. Right now, I want to share an experience that happened to me…


Brian’s Story: 

I went in the Navy right out of high school back in 1983.  In the first year, I went to…


Julie’s Story: 

I was raped four months into my Navy career. The command did nothing. I was called a liar. I was…


Ellen’s Story: 

My teenage son plans to apply for West Point, and it is my dream to help leave a legacy for…


Julia’s Story: 

I was medically discharged from the navy for fracturing my pubic bone and I developed chronic pain and was unresponsive…


Nicole’s Story: 

This is my story. I was attacked and sexually assaulted at my home and at work by a higher-ranking officer…


Anonymous’ Story: 

My rape happened when I and a male friend had duty (CQ) the same night which meant we were both…




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